TACT:
Tact is the ability to deliver a difficult message in a way that considers other peoples feeling and preserves relation even in hard times.It is more an attitude than a ability.It encompasses many things such as emotions,intelligence,,compassion,honesty,leadership,companion ,courtesy etc. It is the art of getting your point without stabbing someone with it.
Actually tact is an act to see others as they wished to be seen.Tact is a way to live your life more happily,friendly and Diplomatically.It can be said the intelligence of heart mind and body.Tact is knowing how far you can go without even going too far.It is an act so don't be so upset if you think you are not so tact enough.Obviously one can develop the habit of tactfulness.
To develop tact,think carefully before you speak.Always consider how someone else might interpret your words.Use active sense of listening skills,pay attention to your and other peoples body language.
And do remember one thing never react too emotionally.However make sure that you still get your message across and that you continue to be appropriately assertive.
Some tips to develop the act of tact
*Make friend circle with a big radius,never get stuck in smaller one.Make as many friends as you can.try interact with each other,
*Collect as more information as you can.The information can be on any field like politics, social, historical,top trending news,
*Speak frankly with every one ,but not just so openly.Try to keep some secrets of yours from everybody.
*Create the right environment and think before you speak.
*Determine the appropriate time.
*Choose the words and sentences carefully before you speak.
*Watch others and your own body language.
*Always make a habit of responding diplomatically without being noticed.
Usually tact is a necessary tool in own life applied in each and every field but some of the toplisted field are
1.leadership skills 2.Team management
3.Strategy Tools 4.Problem solving
5.Decision making 6.Project management
7.Time management 8.Stress management
9.Communication skill 10.Creativity techniques
11.Learning skill 12.Career skill
let me give an example with a story on how tactfulness helps in leadership,
Tact is the ability to deliver a difficult message in a way that considers other peoples feeling and preserves relation even in hard times.It is more an attitude than a ability.It encompasses many things such as emotions,intelligence,,compassion,honesty,leadership,companion ,courtesy etc. It is the art of getting your point without stabbing someone with it.
And do remember one thing never react too emotionally.However make sure that you still get your message across and that you continue to be appropriately assertive.
Some tips to develop the act of tact
*Make friend circle with a big radius,never get stuck in smaller one.Make as many friends as you can.try interact with each other,
*Collect as more information as you can.The information can be on any field like politics, social, historical,top trending news,
*Speak frankly with every one ,but not just so openly.Try to keep some secrets of yours from everybody.
*Create the right environment and think before you speak.
*Determine the appropriate time.
*Choose the words and sentences carefully before you speak.
*Watch others and your own body language.
*Always make a habit of responding diplomatically without being noticed.
Usually tact is a necessary tool in own life applied in each and every field but some of the toplisted field are
1.leadership skills 2.Team management
3.Strategy Tools 4.Problem solving
5.Decision making 6.Project management
7.Time management 8.Stress management
9.Communication skill 10.Creativity techniques
11.Learning skill 12.Career skill
let me give an example with a story on how tactfulness helps in leadership,
Once there were two political leader friends on a small village.And they carried a development project of roads in that village.They were graveling and clearing the drainage system.One of the local resident of village protested against their works who was a professional drunkard.The leaders were frustrated by his action so he start to scold that drunkard.The drunkard used his mumbled sound to scold them back and start to attack them.One of the two leaders start scolding without even thinking what he was speaking.He spoke what it came to his mind.The drunkard and his family now became more aggresive to his words.
The other leader choosed the appropriate environment,appropriate words and sentences to tackle with the drunkard,as though the drunkard was aggressive with this leader too.But he doesn't loose his temper and try convincing that drunkard.When he was not successful on that he threatened him too.There was a situation of clash.Later the drunkards family convinced him not to speak a word.The situation was cooled down some time later and the second leader asked for water with the drunkard and start to chat normally.he preserved his relation but the second leader was unable to preserve the relation and now they have became the perfect enemy.
Note: the leader asking for water and the chat after the situation was cooled down was the tactful act performed by him so that he was able to preserve his relation but the second couldn't.
The other leader choosed the appropriate environment,appropriate words and sentences to tackle with the drunkard,as though the drunkard was aggressive with this leader too.But he doesn't loose his temper and try convincing that drunkard.When he was not successful on that he threatened him too.There was a situation of clash.Later the drunkards family convinced him not to speak a word.The situation was cooled down some time later and the second leader asked for water with the drunkard and start to chat normally.he preserved his relation but the second leader was unable to preserve the relation and now they have became the perfect enemy.
Note: the leader asking for water and the chat after the situation was cooled down was the tactful act performed by him so that he was able to preserve his relation but the second couldn't.
